Wednesday, September 21, 2005

What we learned about relationships....








Ten types of relationships that won't work!!!
  • you care about your partner more than he cares about you
  • your partners cares about you more than you do about him
  • you are inlove with your partner's potential
  • you are on a rescue mission
  • you look up to your partner as a role model
  • you are infatuated with your partner for external reasons
  • you have partial compatibility
  • you choose your partner in order to be rebellious
  • you choose a partner as a reaction to your previous partner
  • your partner is unavailable

Six biggest mistakes we make in the beginning of a relationship

  • we don't ask enough questions
  • we ignore warning signs of potential problems
  • we make premature compromises
  • we give into lust blindness
  • we give into material seduction
  • we put commitment before compatibility

Seven wrong reasons to be in a relationship

  • pressure (age, family, friends, etc)
  • loneliness and desperation
  • sexual hunger
  • distraction from your own life
  • to avoid growing up
  • guilt to fill up your emotional or spiritual emptiness

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